Corned Beef to: my mother who made the best CB ever Katherine Mansfield paid tribute to the Corned Beef; well browned. But red is the true Corned Beef. (Brined by the butcher or yourself.) She mentioned plenty of gravy so I doubt KM's was brined. and horseradish sauce along with baked(?) Potatoes. My best version Corned Beef: white sauce, be it a horseradish or mustard, but make it white along with mashed potatoes (plenty pepper and butter.) Here we go from simmer to a near two hour slow boil, and what a good cook must add. One tablespoon of golden syrup (if you haven't got golden syrup, honey will do.) half a cup of malt vinegar. Then sprinkle in a dozen or so cloves. My friend sprinkles in peppercorns and bay leaf. (She says start with cold water and bring to a slow boil.) Add sliced carrots: peel a brown onion, quarter and add to the water along with the 3 c's Corned Beef, Cloves and Carrots. Place in an own pot, sliced cabbage: which must not be over-cooked. May twenty-twenty-three be the year of Corned Beef. Benita Helen Kape (c) 18.1.2023 (Helen: also my Mum's name.)
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Another World
An elite couple
dancing on the beach.
Raindrops cannot
dampen spirits.
Nor show they a care
to butler and maid
whose umbrellas
attempt to shield them.
Selfishly the waltz
continued.
Little maid, as I muse
so like my mother.
Did you get a chill?
Benita H. Kape (c) 11.1.2022
Notes: This poem is based on a famous Scottish painting
by Jack Vettriano named “The Singing Butler.”
Self taught Jack Vettriano faced much snobbery.
Today for: https://dversepoets.com/2022/01/10/quadrille-143-muse-cues/ We are to write a quadrille incorporating the word “muse.” I muse often on my mother and the very different life she had.

Yesterday’s Poem
This is the; ‘Should have
been written yesterday poem;
how lucky to be written at all
poem.’ It is also, ‘The I’ll write
straight onto the computer poem.’
.
‘This is the little bit grateful poem;
I’m coming alive poem: early in
the morning poem; a little bit
bleary eyed poem’ – but hey ‘Going
quite well poem.’
.
It could be, ‘The I don’t have to be
a very long poem.’ or ‘How did I get
this long poem?’
.
And now it becomes ‘The I’m getting
hungry poem; what’s for breakfast poem;
avocado and bacon on toast poem.’
.
‘Sorry, I have to go; my mouth is full poem.’
Yesterday’s poem; Happy New Year poem. Haeremai.
Benita H. Kape (c) 8.1.202
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Haeremai – Maori; greetings, welcome.
For me the syntax of the word haeremai
sits more comfortably than the word greetings.
Companion Planting – Day 19
Today, I’d like to challenge you to write an abecedarian poem – a poem in which the word choice follows the words/order of the alphabet.

My garden
Companion Planting
Allelopathy: growth inhibition as the consequence of the influence of one organism on another; seldom found word, but it’s there in that one in seven dictionaries.
Banana skins to tickle the toes of a rose.
Cabbages make easy friends with thyme, rosemary, dill, onions and celery.
Dill was well known by the Egyptians. It attracts the bees.
Earwig with his two fierce pincers; he’ll make a mess of those plants.
Frogs are a must for your garden; they eat so many pests.
Gladioli will never make friends with your strawberries.
Hyssop leaves provide a ‘tea’ for bacterial disease.
Kohlrabi, a good companion for your beetroot.
Lacewings, ladybirds, lavender, leek, legumes, lemon balm and lettuce, lizards and lily-of-the-valley.
Marigold they say is everything for companion planting.
Nettles and newspapers are useful in your garden.
Oregano is no friend for the beetle: companion planting.
Potato and pumpkin have a clear and mutual animosity; no companion planting here then.
Quassia chip spray will do no harm where there are ladybirds.
Rue, ‘this herb of grace;’ pretty little lover of the sun.
Spiders: two thousand different species in our islands alone; a few, or many in our garden.
Turnips; if all else fails grow them, says the farmer.
Virus disease; milk powder made up as a spray could be a solution.
Wallflowers, wasps, water and woodchips; all in a good gardeners alphabet.
Yarrow works her magic through the element of copper.
Zucchini, Zucchini; aphids never let in with nasturtiums in your companion planting which costs nothing and does no harm.
Benita Kape © 19.4.2019
Nature is the boss says Brenda Little in her book Companion Planting and to whom I give credit for the information here.
A Good Home for our Trusty Pack-Horse
Prompt: Day 3. A poem that takes time.
A Good Home for our Trusty Pack-Horse
The one thing we had at that time was a little
extra money. And I just happened to be
passing the local car-sale yard when this car
just happened to catch my attention: a big green
Mazda 626. If we pooled our resources; your
compensation monies; and my savings, we could
just about manage this; though first I would
deal. Why not? The dealer knew I was looking
for a good sized boot in which to transport
your wheelchair and/or your walker: the things
you needed when you went between home
and respite care. Yes, it would suit us well
and he was a fair dealer letting me take it home
for you to view. To view was to make you smile.
We completed on the deal. How many times
I took you to appointments, a ride in the country,
visiting friends. Then when you were admitted
(and that was after several years) to special care,
sometimes I drove “The Green” up the road
and across the river to visit you as often as
three times a day. “The Green” was a big empty
car after you were gone, but I was not about to
swap her. I continued to call her “The Green”
even though there was your big green Lazy-boy chair
as well. Then water somehow got into “The Green” (car)
after days of rain. She ceased to go. I sent her to the garage
and waited, and waited for the necessary work
to be done. It took two months, and a bad job at that.
Now she only fired if the temperature was about
eighteen degrees or warmer. I found a way to
warm her up. I pulled out a long cord and plugged
a smaller heater into the nearest plug, set the heater
in “The Green” and then, when warm she fired. I put
up with that for some years until, without disposing
of “The Green” I negotiated for “The Grey”, smaller
and automatic where “The Green” was a manual drive.
At last, I said to my lawn-mowing man, “You want
to buy this Mazda for $500?” Previously, he’d only seen
a dust-covered car set aside; but this day I’d just washed
her down. She always had a good green coat to catch the eye.
At first he said no, but as he was about to leave that day
he said, “You don’t mind if I give her a try do you?”
And up the road he drove. By this time I knew the
answer to “The Green’s” troubles was the replacement
of costly condenser and I knew it would be someone
else who had to source it, get things moving and so on.
We worked our way through that and I also pointed out
the touches of rust; but he was keen to take her. I let
her go with a heavy heart; he was happy and if he
got it sorted, which he did, he’d gift it to his sister.
Seemed like a good result to me until, as the story
goes, a barney they had had so that she refused him.
But all long stories come to a good end. He found
for her a good home; some lucky teenager now
goes to college in “The Green”. And though I’ve got
“The Grey”. I still hanker for my lovely green Mazda.
Benita Kape © 3.4.2019
Wind In My Tail; Self Portrait – 2019 – 31st March
Prompt: To write a Self Portrait
Wind In My Tail, Self Portrait
I wear the colours black and white
with nothing in between. My black
leather lips reaching high, hoping
for my mistress’s kiss.
I have never borne a kitten. I see little
company other than my own; and hers.
Food set out, the run of the cottage;
I long ceased to bring a near dead
mouse to her door.
She has set the boundaries. But I must
break out for play, and flip the mat
or creep beneath; and now I rush
from room to room.
She only laughs and says “You got
wind in your tail?” The evening agenda
ruined again.
Can she not jump from chair to chair?
slide across a slippery floor and flip
to fully reveal the whitest of white bellies.
Though I may sit on her warm knee,
and yes, close to her clothed belly;
I know it no match for mine.
One day will she not change places with me
while I write a poem about her?
Benita Kape © 1.4.2019 for 31.3.2019 NaPoWriMo 2019
Rink On
Nuptial Photoshoot
roller rink at the beach …
rock & roll, hand in hand,
wave after wave they get the balance.
the high shot
looking down on them,
and that high sweep
don’t turn to look
artfully netted rocks, beachside:
(a city setting itself against future storms.)
later, upon opening up the photograph,
choose “Paint;” and having chosen text,
font, size and colour, in a blue wave
write on that big sweep of the rink
rocks
ignore them
rink on
or swim for your life
Benita H. Kape © 26.3.2019
The Touch & Taste of Grace

The little organ still the same. The photo was taken in 2015
The Taste & Touch of Grace
Just as it truly is, a small and wondrous worshipping place;
Remove all artificial growth. Leave no trace –
So that I may fill in all past and precious detail;
The sound, the smell; the taste and touch of grace.
The door was never locked, no key to turn.
A child, I’d enter there, an eager, tender heart affirm.
On a stool, I’d sit quaint organ keys to test.
This after-school sunset hour, a joyful hour for my return.
I’d kneel at the altar and make a little prayer.
No one ever entered and found me there.
Oft’, rather than enter I’d sit on the nearby bridge.
Neighbours listening: at dusk, I sang in the evening air.
I just happened to be living close, that church not mine.
Seldom used now, though not through the years left in decline.
This painting on my wall holds sweet sights I recall,
A row of trees extremely tall; the musky smell of pine.
I dream of that little church I see so seldom now.
Again fresh painted, when down that lane my slumbers slow.
The old red cottage demolished, an ugly grain barn built.
But church and those dear memories through my dreams and senses flow.
Benita H. Kape © 16.2.2019

My nephew, a joiner, makes repairs to the pews